According to sex experts, women get the most
pleasure out of basic missionary sex. "Interestingly,
when we surveyed women, good old-fashioned
missionary position was the overall favorite.
There's nothing fancy about it, but women said they
loved the closeness and the intimacy of having their
partner's weight on them," says Solot.
But in order for position to be most effective, Los
Angeles-based sex expert and radio host Lora
Somoza says to make sure you're entering her at
the correct angle. "By going in diagonally—rather
than straight in and out—there's more friction for
clitorial stimulation, which is best, since that's how
most women achieve orgasm."
2. Reverse Cowgirl
In this position, the man is either lying down or in a
sitting position, and the female straddles him
backwards — facing his feet instead of his face. It's
a key position that also allows easy access to the
clitoris, says sexologist and sexuality educator
Megan Andelloux. "Because of the easier clitoral
access, this position is the one that is most likely to
facilitate an orgasm because direct clitoral
stimulation is easy to engage in."
3. Doggie Style
Doggie style is a great position for the woman
because it allows her to have optimal control. "She
is able to adjust her range of motion for an angle
that feels best," says Amy Levine, a sex coach and
founder of Ignite Your Pleasure. "He can likely
stimulate her G-spot and have access to her clitoris
with his hand, her hand or a toy, like a small bullet-
shaped vibrator." Sexologist Gloria Brame, Ph.D.
also stresses the importance of clitoral stimulation
while in the doggie style position. "She will rarely
have an orgasm if you're not doing something
manually in front at the same time," she says.
4. Girl on Top
Another position that allows her to have the most
control of her orgasm is when she's the one on top,
facing forward. But Somoza explains that it still
needs to be a joint effort. "You can help her by
moving her hips up and down. It's a communication
thing," she says. Levine adds that when the woman
is on top, "she's in control of the depth and motion,
as well as having easy access to her clitoris for
pleasure."
5. Spooning
If your lady doesn't prefer deep penetration,
Andelloux suggests spooning. It's also good "if
you're into lazy morning Sunday sex playtime. It
concentrates on stimulation of the front portion of
the vagina or rectum, which is where the most
nerves are located in the genitals." Andelloux
explains that spooning is pleasurable because it
creates a tighter fit in the vagina and rectum, so if a
woman is looking for more stimulation from her
partner's fingers or penis… spoon away.
6. Crisscross
According to Marshall Miller, a sex educator and co-
author of I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary
Orgasm Guide, this is another great position for
clitoral stimulation. "Both partners are lying down.
The woman is on her back and the guy is on his
side. She has her legs draped over his middle like a
giant X," he says. "Since your bodies aren't squished
against each other, either you or she can reach
down to rub her clitoris, what most women need to
reach the Big O."
7. The Pillow Technique
Many sex experts agree that positions often
become more pleasurable for a woman when a
pillow or blanket is added to create a new angle of
entry. In missionary, Levine says to "put a pillow
under her tush to give a pelvic lift. That can also
help the man rub her g-spot with his penis." Dr.
Brame says it's a tip that is often underutilized, and
that you can even use furniture or yoga props.
"Certain angles for some women won't be
comfortable," he says. "Ask her what is working for
her."
8. Coital Alignment Technique
This position, created by psychotherapist Edward
Eichel, is considered by many to be the "greatest
sex position in the world." Start in a normal
missionary position with your full body weight on
top of the woman, not resting on your elbows.
Move forward so that the base of your penis (your
pubic bone) is making direct contact with her
clitoris. Her legs should be around your thighs and
you should be moving together in a rhythmic,
rocking motion. "Some swear that this position
allows for the closest physical connection and the
best clitoral stimulation based on his positioning,"
says Levine.
9. Ankles Up
"When you're on top of somebody or flat, you can't
always achieve full penetration," says Dr. Brame—
which is why adjusting her leg positioning allows for
deeper contact. "You have to put her ankles up
over your shoulders. It allows you to go as deep
inside of her as possible and hit her G-spot." The
same deepness can also be achieved by her
bending her knees or placing the soles of her feet
on your chest.
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